Just chill for a minute. No one's asking you to leave TBT.
In situations like this when "everything goes wild" as you put it, it might be a good idea to take a step back and try to understand why people took offense to what you had said, which will prevent issues like this from happening in the future. No need to be upset or leave, as I don't believe you meant any harm and I certainly wasn't trying to attack you, but I do have to take action when a thread is reported multiple times due to members being uncomfortable or offended by what's being discussed or how certain things were phrased. Perhaps try reading over some of the replies in your thread when you cool down, and listen to those who tried to explain why they were offended (as they did a better job summing it up than I ever could) and try to receive what's being said rather than feeling like you're being attacked.