Bullying - Discussion

I been bullied in 6th, 7th, and 8th grade. In 6th grade, this punk would call me names, hit from time to time, and take away my glasses. In jr high, I went to probably the worst school in the city. Fights everyday and the aroma of weed. People would make fun of me and this one guy in the beginning of the year in history, he punched me in the back every second of class. My back would be in pain and I almost cried after. Thank God that I was put in advanced placement classes afterwards because the kids there were nicer than the kids in regular classes..

I dont know if this counts as bullying, but in first grade my substitute teacher yelled at me "mind your own business, b###h." Didn't know at the time what that word meant, but ever since I became very shy and very quiet.
I feel bad for you, I'm sorry you had to go through both emotional and physical pain :( But just know that many people are by your side :)
 
I am partially laughed at for saying my th's like f. So if I say this it sometimes sounds like fis. It's not all the time but it was really bad in 3rd grade. I am not what you call traditionally pretty and a girl I know in my school makes fun of that. I wore make up one day and she quotes "you know that wont help right?" She asks why I have a mirror in my locker I don'thae any make up to fix. Like I need it cause it won't help". She is a b****! She kinda stopped now because my current boyfriend stood up to her for me. Before that she said wow. kia sad you don't have a boyfriend yet." I told her "well maybe I don't want to be 13 boyfriend b**** like you." Got lunch detention for that. Also there's another girl who stickers at people without apple products. Ug. My friend and I have a club at school for this li.d of discussion
 
I am partially laughed at for saying my th's like f. So if I say this it sometimes sounds like fis. It's not all the time but it was really bad in 3rd grade. I am not what you call traditionally pretty and a girl I know in my school makes fun of that. I wore make up one day and she quotes "you know that wont help right?" She asks why I have a mirror in my locker I don'thae any make up to fix. Like I need it cause it won't help". She is a b****! She kinda stopped now because my current boyfriend stood up to her for me. Before that she said wow. kia sad you don't have a boyfriend yet." I told her "well maybe I don't want to be 13 boyfriend b**** like you." Got lunch detention for that. Also there's another girl who stickers at people without apple products. Ug. My friend and I have a club at school for this li.d of discussion


Lol Apple products? She's a freaking hipster which is the lowest form of scum. I mean what?
 
I knew people that were bullied because of their taste in movies...

I remember some guy going like:

"You don't like Rocky? You're a stupid dumb***. Taxi Driver was ****. Anyone who hates Rocky and likes Taxi Driver is an idiot."

Can't remember when, but I remember hearing that from someone.
 
I was bullied A LOT mainly by other girls from 5th grade up until recently. It's only my freshman year of college and I haven't been bullied for this yet, so I'm hoping it stays that way. *knocks on wood*
I don't think people understand that just because someone doesn't look the way you want them to, doesn't mean they can just fix it. Someone can't just change their genetics, I can't help that I look a certain way and you're going to make fun of me for it? That really stings because it's not something I can change and then be left alone about.

If you don't know someone's life, leave them alone.
 
I was bullied A LOT mainly by other girls from 5th grade up until recently. It's only my freshman year of college and I haven't been bullied for this yet, so I'm hoping it stays that way. *knocks on wood*
I don't think people understand that just because someone doesn't look the way you want them to, doesn't mean they can just fix it. Someone can't just change their genetics, I can't help that I look a certain way and you're going to make fun of me for it? That really stings because it's not something I can change and then be left alone about.

If you don't know someone's life, leave them alone.

You're in college? Don't worry it's the best people are definitely a lot more accepting of each other. I wanna go back...
 
I'm bullied on a daily basis right now. The thing is, I really don't care. I know sometimes people will say that to act tough, but I'm not. I'm not trying to be superman. I just don't mind someone telling me my clothes are hideous, because I like them, and I know they're awesome. Whenever someone calls me a b****, I say: that's Nerd ***** to you. I'm weird. But that's ok.
 
You're in college? Don't worry it's the best people are definitely a lot more accepting of each other. I wanna go back...

Just a freshman so far. It's a lot better than high school and middle school already.
 
Just a freshman so far. It's a lot better than high school and middle school already.

I blame Junior/Highschool troubles on the hormones. Still College is great getting to meet so many people who have just calm down are a little more mature. If you're lucky you get to go college in a city and even meet people from all over the country or outside the country. Dude I'm jealous of you right now...


I'm bullied on a daily basis right now. The thing is, I really don't care. I know sometimes people will say that to act tough, but I'm not. I'm not trying to be superman. I just don't mind someone telling me my clothes are hideous, because I like them, and I know they're awesome. Whenever someone calls me a b****, I say: that's Nerd ***** to you. I'm weird. But that's ok.


I just have to saying being weird is such a normal thing to say =p

Shame you're being bullied though. *fist bump* Nerds unite.
 
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I know I've posted on here before, but...

In my GCSE Maths class there was a group of boys who constantly sexually harassed girls in my class- including me. It started off with them just making offhand comments but when they realised our MALE maths teacher wasn't stopping them it started getting worse, with the attempting- and often succeeding- of touching girls in my class. If you were sitting next to any one of those boys they'd try and stick a hand up your skirt (One girl started screaming when this happened, she got the detention for it.) and it wasn't just the 'ugly' girls getting this treatment, all the girls were getting it and every time we went and confronted our teacher about it he was all 'boys will be boys', 'just ignore them' and even 'maybe you shouldn't dress so provocatively'.

On the last day of the year I eventually snapped at those boys. I was sitting next to my boyfriend, we didn't have any work since it was the last day (We had to be in class though) so we were just chatting about the upcoming holidays, when the whole group of boys moved their seats around me and started trying to pull me away from my boyfriend. I started screaming, the teacher started yelling at me, the group of boys were laughing, my boyfriend started yelling at the boys... And then I punched one of the boys, square in the jaw. Everyone froze. All the girls started cheering as my boyfriend pulled me away, the teacher then sent me and the group of boys to the head teachers office. The boys tried to blame me, saying I lashed out at them. I wouldn't have any of it so I told the head teacher what had been happening for TWO YEARS without anything being done about it apart from the girls getting blamed.

All those boys lost their places at our local college and were not allowed to go to prom. Our Maths teacher was suspended. And finally the harassment stopped. (My boyfriend was not involved with that group of boys, just to fully clarify.)
 
I know I've posted on here before, but...

In my GCSE Maths class there was a group of boys who constantly sexually harassed girls in my class- including me. It started off with them just making offhand comments but when they realised our MALE maths teacher wasn't stopping them it started getting worse, with the attempting- and often succeeding- of touching girls in my class. If you were sitting next to any one of those boys they'd try and stick a hand up your skirt (One girl started screaming when this happened, she got the detention for it.) and it wasn't just the 'ugly' girls getting this treatment, all the girls were getting it and every time we went and confronted our teacher about it he was all 'boys will be boys', 'just ignore them' and even 'maybe you shouldn't dress so provocatively'.

On the last day of the year I eventually snapped at those boys. I was sitting next to my boyfriend, we didn't have any work since it was the last day (We had to be in class though) so we were just chatting about the upcoming holidays, when the whole group of boys moved their seats around me and started trying to pull me away from my boyfriend. I started screaming, the teacher started yelling at me, the group of boys were laughing, my boyfriend started yelling at the boys... And then I punched one of the boys, square in the jaw. Everyone froze. All the girls started cheering as my boyfriend pulled me away, the teacher then sent me and the group of boys to the head teachers office. The boys tried to blame me, saying I lashed out at them. I wouldn't have any of it so I told the head teacher what had been happening for TWO YEARS without anything being done about it apart from the girls getting blamed.

All those boys lost their places at our local college and were not allowed to go to prom. Our Maths teacher was suspended. And finally the harassment stopped. (My boyfriend was not involved with that group of boys, just to fully clarify.)



Ugh, that's horrible. I'm actually glad now that despite people excluding you in my area they don't do that. They're a bunch of idiots for doing that. The first time they did that I would have picked them up by the thumb and threw them into the wall using joint manipulation, regardless of detention. It's not only horrible, but it's gross that some guys have twisted minds like that. People should respect each other's bodies. I bet they lost their integrity for doing that. And that teacher deserved to get suspended. Why would you just shrug harassment off; I'm pretty sure sexual harassment is illegal in the school code of conduct too. It's good you fought back though. People respect you when you stand up for them. You can make a lot of friends by doing that, even if you get blamed for it. Those guys need to get a life though.
 
How the hell is sexual harassment ignored? That isn't just plain bullying. I know it's terrible to say but I can understand the staff ignoring it. It's impossible to police but sexual harassment is just so much worse.
 
How the hell is sexual harassment ignored? That isn't just plain bullying. I know it's terrible to say but I can understand the staff ignoring it. It's impossible to police but sexual harassment is just so much worse.

Seriously, SH is a form of bullying... IMO
 
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