No need to apologize lmao. I'm not that close-minded to think that every child is my nephew. I was more on the line thinking why would they still looking up LBGT weddings base off your reasonings. I was thinking if a kid were to find out that sucha such was going to get marry regardless of that person's sexuality, they wouldn't care. Kids are more on the line of finding love etc gross.
Now if their guardians were like, homophobic, I can see the curioisity of venturing out more information. But I also see that to be alientating itself cause it's normal to love somebody and typing in "LESBIAN WEDDING" make it seem like it's entirely different than a heterosexual marriage. Like as if they have to act a certain way to attend a LBGT wedding than a heterosexual marriage.
I see where you're coming from and I think we're definitely starting from two different places.
I work with children and feel reasonably confident with my understanding of children both in theory and in practice.
Children and their supervising adults routinely look up random things like wedding videos, cultural celebrarions around the world, natural disasters, animal habitat information, dinosaurs, how-to videos of all kinds (barring 18+ content, of course), history, the weather, genetics... the list is endless, but I have personally done each of those things dozens of times in the classroom and outside of those times with hundreds of children.
Searching google (or siri) is the default research technique young children learn to use these days. I take great pains to use other methods (encyclopedias, library trips, asking experts) and encourage their use as well. But we live in the digital age, and our children grow up using technology to learn more about the world and answer many of their questions.
There's usually no judgement attached to random searches like this, though responsible adults vet the content prior to letting the child view it.
I don't really agree with your premise that someone looking up "lesbian wedding" thinks that those must be different from heterosexual weddings. As an educator I have used such terms to quickly find suitable content for my program, and I know most of my colleagues and the parents I work with do the same thing. If you know a keyword that will cut down your search time, you'll probably use it when you're pressed for time.
That said : people don't have to type in "lesbian wedding" to see this video. The algorithms use criteria including previous history, key words, and demographic data to generate the "recommended" content. This video can appear in that list and in searches without the word "lesbian" - provided the restricted setting is off.
Children are born inquisitive and eager to learn. I don't believe that access to content such as "lesbian weddings" should be restricted from children, regardless of whether or not a particular child will ever go looking for that content.