No worries! You were very civil. I also worried that I was sounding too aggressive towards you too because you were just trying to help.
I'm just glad we were able to keep the conversation peaceful because I know how easily disagreements can turn into flame wars on message boards.
Anyway seems like someone answered my question and now you know a new trick if you take a long break and want to check if anyone moved out, so all's well that ends well!
See you around the forum!