This kid is being a butt

Erica

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So this kid named Helen* has been bothering me and my friends for some time now. She would always say hi to us, and talk to us on Facebook, but never in real life. We always see her at school, but she never talks to us. She told me all about her problems saying that she didn't have real friends and they hated her. I tried to console her, but it got to the point of getting annoying. So soon she started to say on Facebook that we were "ignoring her". And she would always say "Are you mad at me?" I got really annoyed, along with my friends. I would tell her, "Why would I even get mad at you if I don't even know you?!" Then she would apologize. She would talk and one day she asked if I knew a boy named Brent*. I asked why and she said she liked him, after some questioning. So she would keep talking and I told her that she was annoying me. She took offense and said sorry and stopped talking to me. But she didn't stop communicating with my friends, so I took the initiative to gather information about her. I asked her peers what they thought of Helen. Everyone I asked said that she was annoying and they didn't like her. So I figured thats why she wasn't hanging out with kids in her grade. So I teased her a bit at school calling her "Brent" after the guy she likes. She would then run away with her older friend. So I dunno what my friends did, but I went up to her and told her to stop bothering me and my friends and to stop adding people she doesnt know. She took offense to that and she told the vice principle, to which I was called out of class to be "talked to."

So I talked to her afterwards and said sorry. She then took offense to me calling her a kid, which I call everyone around me. She denied talking to the vice principal, but she admitted she talked/wrote a whole essay about me to a counselor, who then told the vice principal. And I dunno what to do about this anymore.

*names are different to protect the identity.
 
Quite a conundrum ye be stuck in :o

But uh, idunno how i could be of help..
 
I dunno why shes being a butt, I was just telling her to lay off and interweb advice. Gahh.
 
Luvbun said:
Maybe she is just embarrassed to talk to you in public.
I dont even believe I did anything wrong. She got me in trouble, which puts me on probation in ASB/student council.
 
Erica said:
Luvbun said:
Maybe she is just embarrassed to talk to you in public.
I dont even believe I did anything wrong. She got me in trouble, which puts me on probation in ASB/student council.
And you tried explaining your situation to the Vice Principal, etc? To be honest though, you probably could have handle it in a much better way.

Also, I think the word Anti-Social fits in somewhere there.
 
god, all of you go to *censored.2.0*ty schools that try to take too much *censored.2.0* into their control.

"OH LAWDY STUDENTS ARE BICKERING ON FACEBOOK, MUST SUSPEND"

jesus *censored.2.0*, we were only called in if it disrupted class and even then they told us to sort it out and keep our *censored.2.0* out of class. they never took action.

you all need to grow some skin, *censored.2.0*.
 
And really, it was kind of your fault for getting in trouble with the principal. You teased her, so you gave her license to react, even if she did over react.

You should just talk to the principal.
 
Tom said:
Erica said:
Luvbun said:
Maybe she is just embarrassed to talk to you in public.
I dont even believe I did anything wrong. She got me in trouble, which puts me on probation in ASB/student council.
And you tried explaining your situation to the Vice Principal, etc? To be honest though, you probably could have handle it in a much better way.

Also, I think the word Anti-Social fits in somewhere there.
I was planning to tell the vice principal about my perspective on Monday, cus this all happened in the last week. He told me that "she's a bit self conscious, and you need to stop messing with her."
He didn't even know what gender she was.
Blehh.
 
Erica said:
Tom said:
Erica said:
Luvbun said:
Maybe she is just embarrassed to talk to you in public.
I dont even believe I did anything wrong. She got me in trouble, which puts me on probation in ASB/student council.
And you tried explaining your situation to the Vice Principal, etc? To be honest though, you probably could have handle it in a much better way.

Also, I think the word Anti-Social fits in somewhere there.
I was planning to tell the vice principal about my perspective on Monday, cus this all happened in the last week. He told me that "she's a bit self conscious, and you need to stop messing with her."
He didn't even know what gender she was.
Blehh.
Tell him what's really happening, and if you have to, lie about what happened.
 
Rorato said:
Erica said:
Tom said:
Erica said:
Luvbun said:
Maybe she is just embarrassed to talk to you in public.
I dont even believe I did anything wrong. She got me in trouble, which puts me on probation in ASB/student council.
And you tried explaining your situation to the Vice Principal, etc? To be honest though, you probably could have handle it in a much better way.

Also, I think the word Anti-Social fits in somewhere there.
I was planning to tell the vice principal about my perspective on Monday, cus this all happened in the last week. He told me that "she's a bit self conscious, and you need to stop messing with her."
He didn't even know what gender she was.
Blehh.
Tell him what's really happening, and if you have to, lie about what happened.
Lie? But he knows the whole story from her perspective, so my story shouldn't be much different.
 
Erica said:
I dunno why shes being a butt, I was just telling her to lay off and interweb advice. Gahh.
eat her >:)
 
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