Serious Talk on Sex -Keep It Mature! description about a manga now added

[Jake]

Flavored condoms are only good for bjs. Never for actual sex.

Because if we're being serious about safe sex, it would be to use condoms for sex and bjs.

I DONT UNDERSTAND THEM WHY WOULD YOU SUCK SOMEONES D WITH A CONDOM ON IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE???
AND VAGINAS/ASSES DONT HAVE TASTE BUDS SO?????

i actually do not understand the point of them

 

[amemome]

condoms are cheap?????

depending on how you get them, yes. And as Flop points out, not an investment like a baby would be.

 

[Princess Weeb]

condoms are cheap?????

They're really expensive here idkk

 

[Jake]

They cost a ridiculous amount over here (or at least the decent/trusted brands do)
I'm pretty sure we have the highest teenage pregnancy rates here, so why the hell are they costing people like ?10+ for a box of about 5? what even
ok

wtf you can get like a good brand with 12 in the box for like$8 here???

 

[Poppyann]

They're really expensive here idkk

Im guessing the UK? cos yeah they are expensive here Im gonna back you up on that...

 

[Princess Weeb]

wtf you can get like a good brand with 12 in the box for like$8 here???

Even the worse(r) brands are pretty expensive here. It's more like ?8 for the same amount ffs

 

[amemome]

I think the topic on slut shaming should also be addressed in this thread.

There is such a double standard when it comes to it. If a guy has sex with lots of chicks, then he's such a player/stud/whatever. But if a girl has lots of sex, she's a slut/skank/tramp/all those words in the book.

But having lots of sex isn't a bad thing imo. As long as it's safe sex, consensual, and no one is being hurt by it aka no one is cheating. Cheating is never good, and I would never condone it.

It's in my personal values not to have lots of sex partners and one night stands, and sex should be reserved for relationships when you really care about someone and trust them. But if my friends want to have sex with someone who wants to have sex with them, then cool. Good for them. That's their decision.

When people slut shame, it's really just dumb. They say to the person to have more self-respect. But the thing is that self-respect is exactly that. It's the respect someone has for themselves. Someone could have lots of sexual partners and still respect themself. One's own respect for themself is not defined by another person.

I definitely agree. I think I see double standards in high school dress codes. Dress codes usually focus more on females, and male equivalencies are less frequently considered "breaking the dress code." Principals, can we just not?

 

[aetherene]

I DONT UNDERSTAND THEM WHY WOULD YOU SUCK SOMEONES D WITH A CONDOM ON IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE???
AND VAGINAS/ASSES DONT HAVE TASTE BUDS SO?????

i actually do not understand the point of them

Using a condom during bjs is to prevent transmission of STIs. Cause someone can have it and when you suck someone's D, you can get something like herpes in your mouth. I've seen people have it before. It's pretty much encouraged to have safe sex whenever there is a transmission of bodily fluid. Flavored condoms are meant for bjs. Not for penis to vagina or vagina to vagina or penis to ass sex. Because the flavoring on the condoms can mess with the balance of your body, and that's not good.

 

[Caius]

I DONT UNDERSTAND THEM WHY WOULD YOU SUCK SOMEONES D WITH A CONDOM ON IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE???
AND VAGINAS/ASSES DONT HAVE TASTE BUDS SO?????

i actually do not understand the point of them

Prevent transfer of STD's mostly.

 

[Princess Weeb]

Im guessing the UK? cos yeah they are expensive here Im gonna back you up on that...

Yup~
but yeah we have the highest pregnancy rates so lets charge people a ridiculous amount of money for contraceptives ok

 

[amemome]

I DONT UNDERSTAND THEM WHY WOULD YOU SUCK SOMEONES D WITH A CONDOM ON IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE???
AND VAGINAS/ASSES DONT HAVE TASTE BUDS SO?????

i actually do not understand the point of them

you can get STD (STI)s from oral contact. Need condom ALWAYS.

 

[Jake]

Using a condom during bjs is to prevent transmission of STIs. Cause someone can have it and when you suck someone's D, you can get something like herpes in your mouth. I've seen people have it before. It's pretty much encouraged to have safe sex whenever there is a transmission of bodily fluid. Flavored condoms are meant for bjs. Not for penis to vagina or vagina to vagina or penis to ass sex. Because the flavoring on the condoms can mess with the balance of your body, and that's not good.

I aint using a condom for a bj **** that **** imma risk it YOLO ive risked it all my life and i am free so holla @ me

 

[unravel]

I DONT UNDERSTAND THEM WHY WOULD YOU SUCK SOMEONES D WITH A CONDOM ON IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE???
AND VAGINAS/ASSES DONT HAVE TASTE BUDS SO?????

i actually do not understand the point of them

If the condom has a tiny hole and something then gg

 

[amemome]

I aint using a condom for a bj **** that **** imma risk it YOLO ive risked it all my life and i am free so holla @ me

it's all your call. nobody will force you, but you do have options.

 

[Poppyann]

I aint using a condom for a bj **** that **** imma risk it YOLO ive risked it all my life and i am free so holla @ me

sometimes your replies make my day, god bless you and your sig

 

[Princess Weeb]

I definitely agree. I think I see double standards in high school dress codes. Dress codes usually focus more on females, and male equivalencies are less frequently considered "breaking the dress code." Principals, can we just not?

Our dress codes go more on student favoritism.
Yeah there is some sexism, but if a teacher likes you/if you're clever, you can wear all the makeup you like/dye your hair whatever colour and pretty much destroy your uniform with badges and paint and whatever and nobody will bat an eyelid.

(I go to a pretty strict grammar school, by the way ahah)

 

[aetherene]

I aint using a condom for a bj **** that **** imma risk it YOLO ive risked it all my life and i am free so holla @ me

If we're being real here, even if they are taught, not many people will actually follow the advice. That's just how it goes. I personally don't use them because I don't like the idea of sucking on latex.

If you don't want to use a condom for a bj, then that's your decision.

 

[amemome]

Our dress codes go more on student favoritism.
Yeah there is some sexism, but if a teacher likes you/if you're clever, you can wear all the makeup you like/dye your hair whatever colour and pretty much destroy your uniform with badges and paint and whatever and nobody will bat an eyelid.

(I go to a pretty strict grammar school, by the way ahah)

My GOD that is so freaking wrong... ugh that angers me... I hate playing the favorites game.

 

[unravel]

you can get STD (STI)s from oral contact. Need condom ALWAYS.

I don't think so. You may still have STD tho

 

[Princess Weeb]

you can get STD (STI)s from oral contact. Need condom ALWAYS.

I'm with Jake on this one, I've never heard of people using condoms for oral, it sounds ridiculous.
(This is why you should get tested with your partner regularly) :")