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You are, by no means, ugly. What can I say? Girls suck. I mean, I am ashamed to be one. Girls are vain. The only advice I can give is to... Be nice? Hold doors for them, offer them your jacket, etc. I wish you luck in your quest.
 
Honestly, I would go out with you or have an internet affair with you. {:
 
Then those girls are b- *cough* rude. Just be nice or show them you're worth something? I don't know. I'm a girl but I don't know what we expect lol.
 
Bro, just be you. Don't go for looks. The worthwhile ones won't care about looks... Trust me. I've been there. Don't be desperate. It takes time
 
I think you are attractive. Just be nice and yourself. I don't have any actual advice on how to get a girlfriend though because I'm a loser but don't be afraid to ask one out.
 
I don't necessarily care about looks... If someone's hot, it's an added bonus.
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You are not ugly. you are way prettier than me wOW How are they ignoring you exactly? If they just don't start a convo with you, you should step up? Unless you're already doing that lol Sleeping beauty won't just appear out of nowhere : p Or is it that they just don't reply? o: Cause that's just plain rude. You're probably a nice person, but remember to be polite and kind always! Personality is a big part, looks aren't everything but idk if you're looking for "those pretty girls" I dunno. Bc if you know what I mean they always look for those "hot guys" am I right? But you kinda are but lol What are you looking in for someone? You should probably be looking for someone with similar interests right? Think about how girls feel too. We are weird okay. We always worry "we're not pretty enough" too lol. don't be desperate either too lol Someone will come eventually! c: Be confident in yourself!

I have no idea what I'm talking about I'm 12 don't kill me pls
 
KarlaKGB said:
Have you tried going out to a moon lit lake to have dinner and then when done both of you look at the moon and then both look into each other's eyes grasp hands and kiss?
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such cliche very romance

Other than the cheesy stuff, you're not ugly. The girls who say that are the ones who are ugly. It's the personality that matters! You shouldn't spend time with people who think you're ugly.
 
KarlaKGB said:
Have you tried going out to a moon lit lake to have dinner and then when done both of you look at the moon and then both look into each other's eyes grasp hands and kiss?
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lynn105 said:
You are not ugly. you are way prettier than me wOW How are they ignoring you exactly? If they just don't start a convo with you, you should step up? Unless you're already doing that lol Sleeping beauty won't just appear out of nowhere : p Or is it that they just don't reply? o: Cause that's just plain rude. You're probably a nice person, but remember to be polite and kind always! Personality is a big part, looks aren't everything but idk if you're looking for "those pretty girls" I dunno. Bc if you know what I mean they always look for those "hot guys" am I right? But you kinda are but lol What are you looking in for someone? You should probably be looking for someone with similar interests right? Think about how girls feel too. We are weird okay. We always worry "we're not pretty enough" too lol. don't be desperate either too lol Someone will come eventually! c: Be confident in yourself!

I have no idea what I'm talking about I'm 12 don't kill me pls
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Thanks for the advice. Personality > Appearance as far as I'm concerned; but being shy doesn't help.
 
The best advice I can give is echoed a few times in this thread!

First things first, you're not ugly. Don't worry about a thing in that regard. You just sound shy, introverted, and quite possibly with a mild fear of rejection. And I don't say this to be rude, or to pretend I'm a psychologist, you just remind me a lot of myself. And frankly, I'd love to give this advice to younger-me! Be you, let your personality show through. Don't try too hard to be charming or funny, because it comes off as fake. If someone doesn't appreciate who you are, they're not worth having around. Lastly, be patient. Don't get frustrated when things don't happen immediately; they rarely do. Also, a strong friendship makes a great foundation for a relationship, in my experience. I never bought into the hype of 'jeopardizing' a best friend because of attempting to date them.

As someone who's about to celebrate 8 years of being with his (MUCH) better half, who posts here and introduced me to this place...if I can land the girl of my dreams, anyone can! ^.^ Also, I'm living proof that online relationships DO work. Here's to taking the 'hopeless' out of the romantic. Thank you for the ear, and I hope it's of some help.
 
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girls aren't intimidated by beauty, your parents are liars.
more than likely these girls ignore you because they don't like the way you look, there's nothing you can do about it (unless you get surgery) so you might as well leave it as is.

if you want them to notice you or pay more attention to you then you're going about it the wrong way. you're best off just ignoring them, too, and wait for something better to come by.
 
Jake. said:
girls aren't intimidated by beauty, your parents are liars.
more than likely these girls ignore you because they don't like the way you look, there's nothing you can do about it (unless you get surgery) so you might as well leave it as is.

if you want them to notice you or pay more attention to you then you're going about it the wrong way. you're best off just ignoring them, too, and wait for something better to come by.
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In case you don't know Jake, he tells it like it is. He may be harsh sometimes, but he means well.
 
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