Can someone explain exactly what queer means

I've thought it meant unusual or weird. Like in Nightmare before Christmas, Jack exclaims "How queer!" when he's in Christmas Town.
 
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=queer

Here you go

If it still doesn't make sense, it used to be a term for a gay man, but now if you're something other than straight/asexual you can just say you're queer

nah its anything that falls under LGBT+, ace is included

anyway i actually really hate that it's become a term for that considering it has been and still is a slur that's commonly used against lgbt people
 
I've thought it meant unusual or weird. Like in Nightmare before Christmas, Jack exclaims "How queer!" when he's in Christmas Town.
Yeah and all these people keep coming out as gay like why you gotta announce that ur happy???


i assumed u were being sarcastic but if not sry for the non serious reply
 
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IIRC queer was a term people used to refer to LGBTA people because the term means "not normal"

essentially calling queer people not normal

it's got a new definition now tho

cus that's what languages do
 
nah its anything that falls under LGBT+, ace is included

anyway i actually really hate that it's become a term for that considering it has been and still is a slur that's commonly used against lgbt people

maybe it's a cultural thing but honestly i have never heard anybody use queer as a slur.

Most people just go for f*g or ****.
 
maybe it's a cultural thing but honestly i have never heard anybody use queer as a slur.

Most people just go for f*g or ****.

I heard it a lot in middle + highschool, i guess it just depends where you are? granted I haven't heard it nearly as much as those two.
 
Queer can mean weird or strange, or in certain cases, when used with a sarcastic tone, it can mean someone is gay/lesbian/bi/trans/etc.
 
I thought that genderqueer was a different thing from being gay or bi?
 
Queer was used as a slur a lot more in previous years than it is recently, since there are efforts to reclaim it, but it still is definitely a slur so be mindful of your company if you decide to use that term.
 
I thought that genderqueer was a different thing from being gay or bi?

Not gender queer but queer in general was what I was asking. I only ever knew it as a slur but now I saw someone say that they were queer but not gay and so I felt slightly confused but alas it's now an umbrella term for everyone who considers to be LGBT+

edit: wow i got some killer run-on sentence skills
 
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Not gender queer but queer in general was what I was asking. I only ever knew it as a slur but now I saw someone say that they were queer but not gay and so I felt slightly confused but alas it's now an umbrella term for everyone who considers to be LGBT+

labels are dumb

im me

あたしはあたし
 
lol this thread is gay

Gay jokes that are actually acceptable

also queer was used as an insult in the usa in case people didn't know sometimes it still is but like others I don't like it
 
maybe it's a cultural thing but honestly i have never heard anybody use queer as a slur.

Most people just go for f*g or ****.

ive been called a queer pretty often, never those slurs though
also im curious why you censor the f slur but not the lesbian one (not beign hostile or anything but im assuming its coz of the filter)

a couple teenage dudes know if they call me the more obvious slurs theyd get their ass kicked at school since its pretty big on no homophobia/transphobia etc, but queer is less known and sometimes teachers dont know its a slur. etc have heard "shes a queer" "thats so queer" etc

happened much more in the olden days
 
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