are my dream telling me something

[ZebraQueen]

I dint want to post this but I can't stop thinking about it. ... I need advice

I have started to talk with my ex again.... after my grandmother die... anyway I agreed to only seem him once. ... but ever since then... I have been getting dream about anything really depends but he always there and it's usually always giving me a purple rose (because that my favorite color) or a sunflower (my favorite flower) and I just always smile at him...
But why??? Why I'm a dreaming like these?
Are they telling me something?

 

[Soupery]

Hmmmm I don't know, could it perhaps Be,, you're in love with him???!
Anyways they're just dreams, you still have control over how you spend your life awake so i wouldn't worry too much about it

 

[Corrie]

It really depends on how you feel about him irl. It might mean that you still like him but it also could be that you miss what you two used to do together.

 

[Stepheroo]

they're just dreams, you still have control over how you spend your life awake

This is the soundest advice you can get if you are someone who wants to delve too far into what their dreams mean.

I only remember nightmares and they are very vivid and their the same one (with some different slight variations) every other night but I know that irl my family isn't going to come and murder me in ways like straight out of the SAW movies.

Just don't put too much stock in dreams. They can't tell you how to live your life and sometimes delving too deep into things of that nature can make you believe anything you want, or even things you don't want. I hope this dream stops being a hinderance to you, though! I can tell that you seem to be torn up about it.

Also, sorry to hear about your grandma. And I love sunflowers too.

 

[ZebraQueen]

Hmmmm I don't know, could it perhaps Be,, you're in love with him???!
Anyways they're just dreams, you still have control over how you spend your life awake so i wouldn't worry too much about it

What love him????? No no no... I skip that part... it sure has been a while 3 years but no ..I don't think so....
and yeah your right I still have control over me

- - - Post Merge - - -

It really depends on how you feel about him irl. It might mean that you still like him but it also could be that you miss what you two used to do together.

Well I do miss our fun we had and I just only can see him as friend... so I guess it's because I miss those time
But he never gave me flower when we were together

- - - Post Merge - - -

This is the soundest advice you can get if you are someone who wants to delve too far into what their dreams mean.

I only remember nightmares and they are very vivid and their the same one (with some different slight variations) every other night but I know that irl my family isn't going to come and murder me in ways like straight out of the SAW movies.

Just don't put too much stock in dreams. They can't tell you how to live your life and sometimes delving too deep into things of that nature can make you believe anything you want, or even things you don't want. I hope this dream stops being a hinderance to you, though! I can tell that you seem to be torn up about it.

Also, sorry to hear about your grandma. And I love sunflowers too.

I don't dwell on them unless the start appearing for many days in a row and it has been like 1 and half week since I been dreaming like that and haven't told no one yet well until now

And it's not hindrance me but I'm starting to get confuse :/ I don't know what I'm feeling

 

[Antonio]

Ok, so i looked over this entire thread and i have come up with a few ideas. Before i post it though, do you mind if i ask a few questions. It's kinda hard to get an understanding of the dream with the info i got on hand plus i think the dream have some sort of meaning to it. If you don't feel comfortable answering them, feel free to skip it if you like. Shall we begin??

1. Are you in some sort of relationship at the moment? If not, then when was your last relationship but if so then how would you describe your current relationship?
2. How was your relationship with your ex?
3. Do you still have feeling for your ex?
4. Would you mind providing a more in-depth description of your dream?
5. How often did you have this dream?

This is all i can think of at the moment but i swear i had a few more? Please do remember that you have total control over yourself but dreams are basically a representation of your current state of mind and feeling. Well, at least most of the time...

 

[3skulls]

Dreams are meaningless unless you see a message from the dream when your awake. Sit down and get in touch with your deeper emotions and ask yourself what do you want? Do you want to get back with your ex or do I just want to have a meaningful friendship with him? Answer honestly to yourself it may only take 5 mins or it could take an hour. The only decisions that matter are the ones that we make and commit to.

 

[idiotdoomspiral]

maybe i can help.
im one to see a lot of my ex-friends or exes in my dreams. thats because i think about them a lot and a lot and a lot more. i have a guilty conscience and since you're going through a rough time added with talking to someone you broke up with that possibly could have been rough too, thus creating a sense of guilt if anything between you was difficult. try to clear your conscience somehow. i cant give advice on that since ive been unsuccessful with my own attempts.
dreams are very strange. i still feel like they impact my life even if they aren't real. and, i do not have control over them and maybe you're having the same bit in your dream as theres something bugging your conscience.

 

[ZebraQueen]

1. Are you in some sort of relationship at the moment? If not, then when was your last relationship but if so then how would you describe your current relationship?
2. How was your relationship with your ex?
3. Do you still have feeling for your ex?
4. Would you mind providing a more in-depth description of your dream?
5. How often did you have this dream?

1. no im not in a relationship right now, and my only and last relationship we had 3 years together we broke up summer
2. i dont feel like going to information but i just say that he was very childish most of the time that really got into my nerves
3. i really dont know because he was nice to me and it was hard the breakup but i dont think so
4. well like i said it really depends of where i am like one dream i was just in a mall with my friends and he appear out of nowhere and gave me a purple rose and he tell me that i miss you and then he just walks away
5. been having it alsmot 2 weeks now....

 

[Annika.]

It just means that they're on your mind. If that bothers you do something interesting.

 

[RedRum2514]

Well if you want my opinion I say don't act upon your dreams, these things are very cryptic. and I think that maybe you don't miss him but you miss the fun and company. if the reason you broke up with him was a good one than you shouldn't try to rekindle the relationship, it will only make it worse. thats my opinion anyway...