ACNL Etiquette - or "How to Play Nicely With Other Players"

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As some of you may or may not know, I've recently roped my son into playing ACNL with my daughter and myself. I tried to convince him to join the forum, but he was reluctant to do so because he's new and said that he wouldn't be trading or visiting anyone until he was sure he wouldn't make anyone upset while visiting their towns. ( My words, not his. He's a little more down to earth and used more common coarse language. LOL) I've written out a few common sense rules for him and would love to hear if you have any additions, suggestions or corrections.

"When visiting a town"​

Obey all rules, posted or verbal - whether you understand the reason behind them or not.
Put away your axe or shovel before boarding the train. Walking around with a tool in your hand makes the host understandably nervous.
Remember the manners I taught you, always say Please and Thank you.
Never run. Only walk and follow the paths that have been laid out.
Always ask permission before going exploring. Some host prefer to get trades over with and done and having you wander off makes them upset.
It is nice to bring a present when visiting a town. I usually bring a few hybrids, but baskets of perfect fruit or bell tips are also nice, especially if the host has gone to the trouble of letting people in to catalog items.
When visiting, the golden rule is look but don't touch. Pretend that you're in a very expensive China shop.

"Voided Villagers"​

Voided villagers are like cold viruses. They can unfortunately spread when you're visiting. Minimize the risks if you don't want random villagers by letting visitors know if there's less than 10 villagers in your town. Even taking precautions you cannot be 100% safe since you can get a voided villager from streetpassing a stranger. If you're not willing to risk it, then turn off your streetpass option until you have a full town.
If you have less than 10 villagers and ask for help, whether it's to build up your train station or complete a PWP, you assume all risks on receiving a voided villager. The people coming to your town are there at your request. They are going out of their way to help you.
If you are selling something, clear your void before posting. Clearing your void is easy - just come and visit a full town. Clearing your void will ensure that visitors are not getting more than they paid for. The burden of prevention is on you.
If you are buying something or just going to visit someone clear your void before boarding the train; again, the void clearing should be done by both parties.
Understand that voided villagers are a part of the game mechanics, and sometimes, despite the best efforts of all parties, a unwanted hitchhiker may arrive. Do not lose your cool. It's part of the game. It's annoying, but not fatal and is repairable.

"WiFi Ratings"​

It is courteous to give a wifi rating upon the completion of a visit. The wifi rating takes only seconds and assists all parties in establishing a reputation among the forum users. You can find the wifi rating button by clicking on the name of the person you are visiting - or hosting - which will take you to their profile. There is a tab that's labeled WiFi rating and when you click on that it gives you the option to submit feedback. Do so.

"A few Do Nots"​

Do not respond to a retail thread and not check back. If you've created a thread in the retail board respond to everyone that answers either in the thread or by PM'ing them. If you're done with the thread, close it. You can find that option by advanced editing the first post.

Do not respond to giveaway or cycling threads if you are not able to take the prize/villager that's offered right away or very soon thereafter. It is discourteous to expect people to put things on hold while you get your affairs in order. At the very least give them a reasonable time frame to arrange things and stick to it. If the person hosting the thread agrees than thank them for their patience. If they don't wish to or cannot wait, respect their decision and thank them anyways.

Do not use vulgar language in the game, while visiting or while posting. There is a great range of ages in this forum, from young people to old farts like me. Just assume you're visiting your great great Aunt who's living out her retiring years in a convent and speak accordingly.


Always - Always show respect for the other players.
 
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Always ask permission before going exploring. Some host prefer to get trades over with and done and having you wander off makes them upset.
Reminds me of literally the most courteous guest I ever met. After saying 'hi,' dude just stood there in front of the station even when I motioned to lead him to the house of the villager he was to adopt. So I said, 'I'll lead you to his house,' and that's when he started following me, heh.

Do not use vulgar language in the game, while visiting or while posting. There is a great range of ages in this forum, from young people to old farts like me. Just assume you're visiting your great great Aunt who's living out her retiring years in a convent and speak accordingly.
I would add this:

"I am always at a loss when individuals believe thinly veiling their insults qualifies as 'civility.'"

This was spoken by the co-administrator of my message board. In other words, just because you're not using swear words does not mean you're not being 'vulgar.' Being vulgar is an attitude that includes passive-aggression. Don't do it!
 
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Also, I think a good piece of general advice is: if you're in doubt, ask.

In my experience, people tend to be really nice if you ask them about things. If you don't know if flowers can be trampled forever in Dream Towns or if you steal fruit from someone's town if it'll grow back, ask here on the forum or look up the answers. If you don't know what the etiquette in someone's town is beyond following the host to your destination, ask them if it's ok for you do whatever, whether it's visiting villagers, taking fruit, or checking out their town before you do it.

Voided villagers are like cold viruses. They can unfortunately spread when you're visiting. Minimize the risks if you don't want random villagers by letting visitors know if there's less than 10 villagers in your town. Even taking precautions you cannot be 100% safe since you can get a voided villager from streetpassing a stranger. If you're not willing to risk it then turn off your wifi until you have a full town.
If you have less than 10 villagers and ask for help, whether it's to build up your train station or complete a PWP, you assume all risks on receiving a voided villager. The people coming to your town are there at your request. They are going out of their way to help you.

I'd add to this that if you're doing any wifi activity with someone (trading, buying, selling, offering or giving help...) it's a good idea to make it clear from the start what your void expectations are. If you're posting to request something and absolutely don't want voided villagers, request that anyone who helps has a clean void. If you don't have a clean void and you aren't sure if the other person is ok with it or not, ask them about it or let them know beforehand.

Also, to avoid SP move-ins you don't have to switch off your wifi. You can disable Street Pass. There's an option in the Mii Plaza (if you select the toolbox) that lets you do it and I believe you can disable it from the settings too, it's under connectivity options or something along those lines. That way, you can still use wifi without getting SP move-ins.
 
Also, if you have family or he has friends who play NL, get him to play with them first so he's used to wifi and knows the features.
 
Nice rules ^.^ This should be a sticky. Few weeks back for example, I was at someone's town to grab Flurry but had to pay via Re-Tail first. The girl wasn't doing anything for about 5 minutes and just standing there, so I figured she was afk. So I just stood there because I didn't want to go walking about her town without her present, so I just waited. She came back eventually and said her game was having problems or something. I'm sure she appreciated me waiting for her.
 
Thank you all for the great additions and suggestions. It's nice that he's concerned about how to treat other people; it means that he was at least partially listening when I was raising him, LOL, but I'd love for him to share in the wonderful experience that I've found by being a member here in the Forums. The game is so much nicer when you can play with others.
 
Very nice list! Thanks for taking the time to post something so important and so often forgotten ^.^
 
Huh, I didn't know about the void thing! I tend to void villagers ever so often when I can't be bothered to sell them, so that is good to know. I'll add a note in my signature on that, then.
 
Those are some very helpful tips! I can't think of anything else to add, but I'll keep these in mind the next time I visit a stranger's town. :)
 
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