I'm glad I don't visit the club tortimer island, and only play with people I trust. I know I might not be able to trust some, we've been friends a long time.
It probably has something to do with the friendship level. I ignore my villagers a lot and don't get pinged for special PWP's, so just try and get the highest friendship level.
I forgot I had club tortimer. I went on there like, once or twice. I only go to the normal island because I don't want to meet jerks. I also only go at night for the golden beetles and junk like that for bells