Hey, I'm sorry to hear that this has upset you so much!
The only thing I can suggest is referring to the cycling of villagers. I've been cycling for many years now for, not just myself, but for my real-life friends who play ACNL, too. Because of this and wanting to help others get their dream villagers, I decided to open up a cycling thread here on TBT, and I've come to learn a lot about cycling villagers where I would not have been able to before. I would like to share this knowledge with you, in hopes that it will help you with your villager problem.
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If you want to get rid of this villager, here's what I suggest you do:
1) Be patient.
Villagers don't have a rhyme or reason for why they are the next in line to move. I've searched high and low for any code, sequence, pattern, etc. that might tip off when a villager decides to leave, to no avail. Why some choose to go while others stay boggles my mind. There has been some suggestions that the "older" villagers will ping your mayor first, then it will go down the line of oldest residents to most recent move-ins, but I have to say that there's very little evidence to support this claim in my own experiences. So, just accept the fact that it may or may not be random and it may or may not make a particular villager want to move.
2) Understand the timeframe of cycling.
There are countless, amazing guides out there (and here on TBT) that detail how to successfully cycle villagers. One of the greatest pieces of information you can leverage in your situation is understanding the phases of the average villager moving in and out of your town. For example, when a villager who you don't want to leave pings you, don't get mad, get happy! Why? Because the game is actually trying to check with you about which villagers you want, and which you don't. It understands that you might change your mind about a villager down the road, so, even if you once said you don't want the villager to move, guess what? The game may ask you again the next cycle. It sucks, but think of it as a safeguard instead!
Back to a villager pinging you: if it's a villager you want to keep, tell them not to move, save and quit, and TT a few days forward (something like 2-3, maybe even 4 if you live on the edge). When you load up the game, go to a villager you want to keep and talk their ear off until they tell you one of three things:
1. Someone in town is thinking about moving.
2. They mention something about
rumors.
3. They tell you to leave them alone to think about things.
If number one happens and it's not the villager you want to boot, repeat the above process (telling them not to leave, save and quit, TT, talk to keeper villager).
This is important: because you want to remove a
specific villager, tell all villagers who ping you not to move, even if you don't want that villager, either. This will pass the moving code to the next villager in the sequence, hopefully hitting the exact villager you wanted to boot to begin with.
If it's number two or three, save and quit and TT forward one day. Just one. Then repeat the process.
It's a lengthy process, but it might be the only way for you to guarantee moving out this specific villager. I wish there was an easier way outside of the Amiibo cards feature they introduced, but those can be expensive at times, and they're not always guaranteed.
3) Talk to the villager.
This might not help you now with the current villager you want gone, but it might help with any future move-ins for villagers that you don't want. Talking to them on the day they first move in and then not speaking to them again, for whatever reason, seems to work really well in moving out that particular villager. I'm not even sure where I remember reading this, but I tried it and it works.
Also, make sure that you talk to this villager every once in a while. If they haven't talked to you in months, they won't ping you. They just won't. When you talk to them after so long, they'll mention that they haven't seen/talked to you in x amount of time and will drop the conversation. After that, they will be able to ping you normally when you save and quit and boot up the game again.
If you've done these things already, then you can avoid talking to this villager for the most part. Don't hit them with your net, either, that doesn't work. Just wait for them to ping you or for one of your villagers to mention that the unwanted villager is moving.
4) Lastly, make sure they leave.
We've all been there: a villager we despise finally announces they're leaving. You either hear it from a villager you've been talking to, or the unwanted villager pings you when you walk by. This is the moment you've been waiting for!... then you talk to them, tell them "See ya!" and they immediately shoot back with some defiant bs about wanting to stay to improve your relationship with them.
What do you do?
Well, I suggest two things:
+ If you hear about it from another villager, take a moment to save the game, then talk to the unwanted villager.
+ If an unwanted villager pings you and starts running towards you, immediately save the game.
With both of these cases, you have protected anything you've done in your town at that point so, when the villager mouths off to you about staying in your precious town, turn off your DS. I know, terrifying, but it's the only way to keep them from residing longer in your town.
The best part of this is that they will also provide you with the date of their move-out when this conversation is happening. Use the date to your advantage and TT to the day after. Poof! They'll be gone. There's no need to worry about it being another villager, because the game has already decided that the next in the sequence is that villager.
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I hope that this will be of some help to you. I know a lot of people decide to restart their towns because of a single, pesky villager, but sometimes there are better ways! After getting my second town, I realized just how much time, energy, and work I had put into this game because I almost couldn't remember how to do anything! I was starting from scratch, even though I had been playing the game for years. For some, they really enjoy it. I know I would personally break my own heart if I restarted my town of Honey.
Here's hoping this pesky villager moves for you!
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