So I have a situation, that I will try to describe as best as possible below:
A dude is dating a girl (A)
So the relationship with this girl turns out being empty and toxic but they still stay in a relationship
Then the dude for not having any companionship/affection from the girl (A) starts fooling around (flirting, etc.) with another girl (B) even if he's still with girl (A) who does none of those things that he wants
So then, that girl (B) that he's fooling around with, thought it was real (and he says it's real), but then the dude says that he basically wants to keep the empty dead relationship while still having this side hustle thing.
The second girl (B), that he was fooling around with, actually wanted something serious and not side hustling around (like give all her care to 1 thing) not the dude (trying to "love" both at once supposedly)
He "loves" her back (B) , but also "loves" the empty toxic relationship girl (A)
But the side hustling girl wasn't okay with that, and just wanted an actual relationship with the dude, not this crap with 2 ppl
About the "side hustle" girl (B)
All she wanted was her devotion to one dude, and the dude basically said "**** that, I'm just going to be in a relationship like that with 2 ppl at once"
And she didn't like it like that, so she basically was done and gave up even if she thinks it would have been better than the toxic relationship that the dude only stays in bc he thinks the girl (A) will kill herself if he leaves, but if he leaves wouldn't it be better since they wouldn't be fighting and be in a toxic environment, thus making both happier?...
The empty relationship to the dude matters since he cares about the girl (A), but he basically only got into the relationship with the girl bc she was depressed or whatever and now can't get out of it or do **** so then the side hustle girl (B), who actually likes him and would only devote herself to him gets pushed to the side since she is only a 'side hustle' and the dude only did things with her because he wanted more things from his empty and dry love life with the depressed girl (A)
He does love girl (B), but wants to "love" girl (A) and (B) at the same time instead of just being with one :// and finds that okay of just having 2 girls at once instead of devoting himself to one
Extra details: The girl (A) was already in a relationship with the dude before, but they broke up and got together for some reason even though it's really toxic (they curse at each other)
The dude says he's liked girl (B) for a long time, but he says things aren't going to change anytime soon (with being with girl A) so why do it, it's just selfish
He also thought girl (B) was okay being like the side thing, and not the 'main' thing (which she isn't)
Yeah I basically want an opinion on this, since I'm having problems rn and I kinda want to know what ppl think
Sorry if bad grammar, I'm just typing this kinda tired
If you need any more details on smth (like personalities idk), lmk
Edit: I'm not personally in this but it's 3 close friends...
A dude is dating a girl (A)
So the relationship with this girl turns out being empty and toxic but they still stay in a relationship
Then the dude for not having any companionship/affection from the girl (A) starts fooling around (flirting, etc.) with another girl (B) even if he's still with girl (A) who does none of those things that he wants
So then, that girl (B) that he's fooling around with, thought it was real (and he says it's real), but then the dude says that he basically wants to keep the empty dead relationship while still having this side hustle thing.
The second girl (B), that he was fooling around with, actually wanted something serious and not side hustling around (like give all her care to 1 thing) not the dude (trying to "love" both at once supposedly)
He "loves" her back (B) , but also "loves" the empty toxic relationship girl (A)
But the side hustling girl wasn't okay with that, and just wanted an actual relationship with the dude, not this crap with 2 ppl
About the "side hustle" girl (B)
All she wanted was her devotion to one dude, and the dude basically said "**** that, I'm just going to be in a relationship like that with 2 ppl at once"
And she didn't like it like that, so she basically was done and gave up even if she thinks it would have been better than the toxic relationship that the dude only stays in bc he thinks the girl (A) will kill herself if he leaves, but if he leaves wouldn't it be better since they wouldn't be fighting and be in a toxic environment, thus making both happier?...
The empty relationship to the dude matters since he cares about the girl (A), but he basically only got into the relationship with the girl bc she was depressed or whatever and now can't get out of it or do **** so then the side hustle girl (B), who actually likes him and would only devote herself to him gets pushed to the side since she is only a 'side hustle' and the dude only did things with her because he wanted more things from his empty and dry love life with the depressed girl (A)
He does love girl (B), but wants to "love" girl (A) and (B) at the same time instead of just being with one :// and finds that okay of just having 2 girls at once instead of devoting himself to one
Extra details: The girl (A) was already in a relationship with the dude before, but they broke up and got together for some reason even though it's really toxic (they curse at each other)
The dude says he's liked girl (B) for a long time, but he says things aren't going to change anytime soon (with being with girl A) so why do it, it's just selfish
He also thought girl (B) was okay being like the side thing, and not the 'main' thing (which she isn't)
Yeah I basically want an opinion on this, since I'm having problems rn and I kinda want to know what ppl think
Sorry if bad grammar, I'm just typing this kinda tired
If you need any more details on smth (like personalities idk), lmk
Edit: I'm not personally in this but it's 3 close friends...
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