i only ever really get cramps on the first or second day and then i'm fine, but i'll occasionally get awful cramps and like the brave warrior i am, not take any painkillers.
the worst part is just the general discomfort and inconvenience of it, as well as the god awful smell of sanitary towels.
I get really bad cramps I'm basically out of commission for at least 3 days of the month because of my period. I have bad experiences with pain meds in general so I rarely take anything for my cramps and try to ride it out so I'm usually dead.
I also get reallyyyy bad pimples the week before. Periods suck.
trans men can have periods and not all women have them.
the best ways i've found to cope with mine is staying hydrated, being on top of taking midol an hour before its supposed to wear off and using exercise and heat to my advantage. because of genetic medical conditions i have really heavy and painful cycles and often find myself throwing up from the pain. birth control is a great way to lessen the pain and sometimes sporadic cycles some people face. if you're of age or if your parents are understanding, i'd suggest asking about birth control options sometime! not all parents are down for the idea of their younger kids being on birth control but it's got many good qualities even when one is not sexually active.
I think I?ve always seen it as a time to fully focus on and take care of my needs. Just being unapologetic about wanting comfort, resting and pampering myself (with teas, treats, naps etc.)
I?m also very lucky with my boyfriend, who brings me chocolate, makes warm water bottles and gives back rubs. In that way, the pain really becomes secondary to feeling close and loved <3
i hate having my periods but they don't feel as painful anymore because i'm on birth control. i also hate not being able to wear some of my clothes because of potential stains!