divorce doesnt prevent toxicity from continuing nor prevent mental damage on children :/
my opinion: more people make stupid decisions and go into marriage too fast on a whim of false love, or for selfish reasons (money, visa to america); these choices are the problem bc iwthout bad marriage decisions there wouldnt need to be divorce. divorce is just a consequence .. marriage doesnt seem to be about commitment to another person anymore.
i dont see myself getting married, not even to my current boyfriend unless we were both truly sure, already open and mentally & financially could handle it.