Have you tried having a conversation with her about asexuality and what it means? I'm assuming she thinks you're gay because you aren't interested in a relationship with a girl so try explaining that it's (sexual) relationships in general that you aren't interested in?
I think the best way to improve your relationship with your mom is to be honest and discuss how you're feeling with her directly.
ok so I don't really know if i should post this on here but whatever
so here's the problem: my mom took my phone while I was out and like i don't have anything to hide from her but what the ****??? seriously??? and she started saying about how she didn't care if i was gay and how i'm going to be always her son and like tons of lgbt+ supportive ****, i mean it was cute and all but i'm not gay
I sadly have tried talking with her but it always ends in her telling lies and still not trusting me T.T
Do you pay for the phone and service or does she? Because if she's paying for it it's technically hers and she can snoop through it if she wants to. It sucks but it's hers.
If you haven't already just confront her and just tell her it breaks your trust when she does that.
Thankfully mydad doesn't snoop, and my mom has only snooped twice (one had major consequences because 5th grade me didn't know how to delete my search history and the other had like no consequences) but yeah I'm very careful. I don't give my parents any reason to snoop (even though there's plenty of reason to) and I don't tell them about my personal life at all. I don't trust them at all yet I keep giving them plenty of reason to trust me.
Thankfully mydad doesn't snoop, and my mom has only snooped twice (one had major consequences because 5th grade me didn't know how to delete my search history and the other had like no consequences) but yeah I'm very careful. I don't give my parents any reason to snoop (even though there's plenty of reason to) and I don't tell them about my personal life at all. I don't trust them at all yet I keep giving them plenty of reason to trust me.
Yeah like others said, if she pays for the phone she has the right to look through it... and idk she doesn't sound like she's being a terrible mother by trying to support you even if she's not going about it the correct way...
Eh, no she doesn't have the right to do that. Then don't give your kids things if you can't trust them jesus.Do you pay for the phone and service or does she? Because if she's paying for it it's technically hers and she can snoop through it if she wants to. It sucks but it's hers.
Eh, no she doesn't have the right to do that. Then don't give your kids things if you can't trust them jesus.