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Are you too judgemental?
- Thread starter moonford
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UglyMonsterFace
Arize from Azulon
Well see, I can't help but judge in my mind sometimes. But I never ever let those judgements spill into my actions and the way I treat people. I think that it is in people's nature to judge whether we like it or not, but the thing that matters is that we do not treat people wrongfully based off of our judgements.
Privately, I'd say I'm about as judgemental as the next person. I try not to let it impact the way I feel about or treat people but that's still something I need to work on I think. I'm quite good at keeping those judgemental thoughts to myself though, as in I don't really like to share them with others behind someone's back or whatever
visibleghost
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i try to not judge people b4 they do stuff but if they mess up i'll judge them a Lot. sometimes i guess i do it too much but idk. i know that what im seeing/feeling/whatever is just my experience with that person and in sure they are different in other situations but if theyve done something to make me dislike them i will be very negative abt them in my mind until they prove that theyre ok. so idk. sometimes i'll judge people more than "necessary" (idk what word to use tbh) because they pissed me off so i'll find All the reasons to hate them even if it might not be fair or tru
amanda1983
Senior Member
I judge myself extremely harshly. Depending on the situation, the people involved, and my emotional attachment to them, I can be judgemental. Typically, though, I focus on the situation/problem and how to resolve things. I'm much less interested in wasting my time and energy on "blame game" nonsense than I am on fixing things and moving on.
GrayScreen
Senior Member
Yeah. I am. In my defense, I'm also really quick to change my judgements and accept that I was wrong if there's decent enough evidence.
Nuclear Bingo
Senior Member
Yes, and I hate it.
lostineverfreeforest
Senior Member
It depends. I'm much more inclined to judge somebody based on how they behave and what they do vs. how they look, what they like, or what they believe in. I credit traveling for opening my mind regarding a lot of things, but a ****head is a ****head no matter where they're from or what they look like.
helloxcutiee
Senior Member
When am I not judging things tbh.
BrinaLouWho
eh
I'm not, I can only think of one time in my life where I have been judgemental of someone.
deerprongs
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I am very judgmental; I don't trust people at all, except my best friend whom I've known for 6 years now. I try not to judge by appearance and all that, because I personally am not fond of how I look, but I do judge by actions. I have learned that people are liars and backstabbers (not all of them, but quite a lot), and therefore tend to treat them with a "cool, now stay the f--- away from me" type of attitude. I try to be nice to strangers and people in general, but if someone gives me a rude glare for no reason, I'm very quick to return the favor. I don't play well with others, especially if they're rude to me just for the sake of being rude. Otherwise, I'm very polite and kind.
