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What Would You Do?
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Nuclear Bingo
Senior Member
get ready to leave the person, honestly. I'd leave Unless the s/o's problem can be truly solved easily. Like miscommunication. Most of the time problems stem from something deeper and rooted in personal beliefs or attitude, from experience and friends' experiences
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UglyMonsterFace
Arize from Azulon
If people left their partners whenever they were having a hard time, then what's the point? Relationships take work, especially through hard times. As long as there is communication and the will to work things out, then most of the time, you get the result you want. I mean, if my boyfriend took this advice, he should have dumped me long ago, since all my issues revolve around a hard childhood and problems with family, plus anxiety that causes panic attacks. Those things stress me out and it's extremely hard to work around sometimes.. But we're still going strong. I hope I misunderstood you, though, because I think that this is a sad way to think. To leave if the problem is too hard to solve..
KaydeeKrunk
The Late Great Turt
Try to talk to them and if they're being stand-offish about it then let them be until they're ready to talk, a good relationship is built on support and communication.
Nuclear Bingo
Senior Member
If people left their partners whenever they were having a hard time, then what's the point? Relationships take work, especially through hard times. As long as there is communication and the will to work things out, then most of the time, you get the result you want. I mean, if my boyfriend took this advice, he should have dumped me long ago, since all my issues revolve around a hard childhood and problems with family, plus anxiety that causes panic attacks. Those things stress me out and it's extremely hard to work around sometimes.. But we're still going strong. I hope I misunderstood you, though, because I think that this is a sad way to think. To leave if the problem is too hard to solve..
I agree with you. This probably won't surprise you but I've never had a long term relationship. I am self centered for sure
sorry if I offended you. I realize I was a bit insensitive with my comment.
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UglyMonsterFace
Arize from Azulon
You didn't offend me, don't worry, it just made me sad. I respect what you believe in, but it just isn't the advice I would give. Please don't think you offended me! We just have differing points of view.
I'd definitely ask why they felt stressed and I'd allow them to spill their heart out. Relationships are all about trust and listening to each other. If they needed space, I'd give them it to allow them to think and figure out their own feelings.
what significant other?
why would I have a significant other?
I don't even want to deal with relationships
who set me up?
why would I have a significant other?
I don't even want to deal with relationships
who set me up?
watercolorwish
Happy🎃Halloween!
catch another one and fill ur pokedex
GhostyRamen
Junior Member
I would ask them what is wrong. Sit them down and make them a cup of tea, and tell them to relax. I can usually tell when my s/o is worried about something, and its something that can be fixed with lots of love and care. But if they ever do get mad at me, I think it would be best to distance myself from them until they are ready to talk.
