honestly that has never really happened to me. maybe it's just my school district or area, but it's a rule that girls cannot slack or stand on the side talking, or we'll get an F. That, and I have really bad anxiety when people throw things at me, football, frisbees, you name it. I have terrible hand-eye coordination when I'm not ready, and when a guy who's muscular and built makes eye contact with you and throws you a football in a blink of an eye, my puny, small body gets scared and freezes up. I guess that also makes for the "girls aren't athletic" stereotype, but trust me, I want to be athletic and join in on the fun, but I'm just really bad at it.