oops i died
also this probably makes no sense but idc
genders are forced onto people due to their biological sex.
gender roles are forced onto people due to their genders.
in almost EVERYWHERE, gender and biological sex are treated as the same. can 10 year old child brides in africa opt out by saying they identify as genderfluid? without gender, males and females would be treated the SAME. families would not allow a male child to go to school but not a female child. they would just both be kids, and their different genitals would be treated just like other different body parts, like hair and eye color.
when a baby is born, they are given a gender due to their sex. there are trans people because they feel they were assigned the wrong gender, because there are only two opposite extremes available, no compromise.
inventing ten billion new genders for self identification helps NO ONE because babies will still be forcibly given genders and then have to escape from them. if there weren't genders, everyone could do what they wanted without worrying about going out of their gender norm and having to choose a new gender.
you are using gender synonymously with personality. we do not sum up personalities in one or two words and have people use them to fully describe themselves. personalities are just a part of people that those who know and talk to them slowly learn. they are not meant to be identified and labelled.