XTheLancerX
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So, my crush, seemingly out of nowhere, starts somewhat fighting (not too harsh) over me on an Instagram picture I posted, (A selfie >_>) with this other girl I have never met in person, but know of. She is from a different school district which is about 20 miles away from where I live. Believe it or not, this isn't even that far in the area I'm in... Most all towns, which are all quite small, are separated by this sort of distance in my county. These girls are both decent friends apparently, so yeah.
Anyways, I text my crush about this after words, (keep in mind, I'm not 100% ready to get into a relationship, but I still like her nonetheless) and in a round about way ask if she really meant what she said... She was saying things like "He has to pick one of us!" On my picture, later to say "he is going to choose me because we are secretly in love!!"... Etc...
Again, anyway. My crush kind of replied something like, "Well, it sort of is true, but she really digs ya
". So, my crush essentially friend zoned me hard and is trying to set me up with another girl who lives 20 miles away. This girl has commented on some old pictures saying I'm cute and such, I just sort of brushed it off trying not to get caught off guard, etc...
Later, she pretty much forced me and her into talking on Kik and Snapchat, and the girl is actually decently nice to talk to.
This sort of blew over for a couple months, but now it's back. The girl started snap chatting me again, except now it went for hours, just kind of talking, but not really having a deep conversation. I sort of enjoyed it to be honest, but it just feels really weird, considering that I like someone else (this girl is growing on me though tbh.. ^^), and she lives 20 miles away/I have never seen or talked to her in person/don't even know what sorts of things she thinks are funny or interesting, etc etc etc... (I'm ending things with "etc" too much, sorry.)
So... Now my crush has been talking to her and I, trying to essentially hook us up. She told me that the girl really wants my number. I didn't really have a problem with it since she had my Kik/Snapchat anyway, and she is sort of nice to talk with. So, I followed through.
This whole thing is weird, it feels forced, but at the same time, I kinda like talking to this person. However, I almost feel like my crush is just trying to mess with me pretty badly... I have contradicting (but hopeless) feelings though. My crush has friend zoned me really badly, even though for months I suspected she liked me too, always wanting to sit by me in lunch, in class, heck, she even was pretty seemingly upset when she found out we weren't in the same Spanish class... Saying it really sucks, stuff like that.
On top of ALL of this, my parents don't seem like they would be too approving of a somewhat long-distance relationship if it even did end up happening. It all feels like one huge dead end. Also, just talking to random girls... They don't even know I text any girls, as far as they know, I barely text anyone, just a couple of guy friends. They act real weird about this stuff and it freaks me out to say anything. Oh, and about how I primarily spoke to this person through snapchat, they don't want me having a snapchat apparently. I randomly made emails, Instagram, this forum account, they know about all that and didn't care, (they were fine because they said they trusted me to be responsible, which I have been) so I made a snapchat. Come to find out, a month or two after having it, my mom randomly asks my brother, "You don't have a snapchat, do you?" He replies, "No." My mom follows with just a flat out, "Good." I have had Snapchat for almost 5 or 6 months now. I don't even use snapchat for anything bad, even though it seems like my parents automatically think snapchat is just straight up, nonstop, sexting. I don't do that, don't feel comfortable doing it, and don't plan on doing that, because just so much stuff could go wrong, and I just don't want to do that lol.
Anyway, I am in the most complicated situation I could ever imagine. What do I do??
I am sorry for such drama, but I am really in a weird situation, and kind of need advice.
Also, I apologize for how hard this entire "Story" is to decipher. There are so many different factors and thoughts that entered my mind at the same time, that all of them messily came out into.... That ^ at once.
So, my crush, seemingly out of nowhere, starts somewhat fighting (not too harsh) over me on an Instagram picture I posted, (A selfie >_>) with this other girl I have never met in person, but know of. She is from a different school district which is about 20 miles away from where I live. Believe it or not, this isn't even that far in the area I'm in... Most all towns, which are all quite small, are separated by this sort of distance in my county. These girls are both decent friends apparently, so yeah.
Anyways, I text my crush about this after words, (keep in mind, I'm not 100% ready to get into a relationship, but I still like her nonetheless) and in a round about way ask if she really meant what she said... She was saying things like "He has to pick one of us!" On my picture, later to say "he is going to choose me because we are secretly in love!!"... Etc...
Again, anyway. My crush kind of replied something like, "Well, it sort of is true, but she really digs ya
". So, my crush essentially friend zoned me hard and is trying to set me up with another girl who lives 20 miles away. This girl has commented on some old pictures saying I'm cute and such, I just sort of brushed it off trying not to get caught off guard, etc...Later, she pretty much forced me and her into talking on Kik and Snapchat, and the girl is actually decently nice to talk to.
This sort of blew over for a couple months, but now it's back. The girl started snap chatting me again, except now it went for hours, just kind of talking, but not really having a deep conversation. I sort of enjoyed it to be honest, but it just feels really weird, considering that I like someone else (this girl is growing on me though tbh.. ^^), and she lives 20 miles away/I have never seen or talked to her in person/don't even know what sorts of things she thinks are funny or interesting, etc etc etc... (I'm ending things with "etc" too much, sorry.)
So... Now my crush has been talking to her and I, trying to essentially hook us up. She told me that the girl really wants my number. I didn't really have a problem with it since she had my Kik/Snapchat anyway, and she is sort of nice to talk with. So, I followed through.
This whole thing is weird, it feels forced, but at the same time, I kinda like talking to this person. However, I almost feel like my crush is just trying to mess with me pretty badly... I have contradicting (but hopeless) feelings though. My crush has friend zoned me really badly, even though for months I suspected she liked me too, always wanting to sit by me in lunch, in class, heck, she even was pretty seemingly upset when she found out we weren't in the same Spanish class... Saying it really sucks, stuff like that.
On top of ALL of this, my parents don't seem like they would be too approving of a somewhat long-distance relationship if it even did end up happening. It all feels like one huge dead end. Also, just talking to random girls... They don't even know I text any girls, as far as they know, I barely text anyone, just a couple of guy friends. They act real weird about this stuff and it freaks me out to say anything. Oh, and about how I primarily spoke to this person through snapchat, they don't want me having a snapchat apparently. I randomly made emails, Instagram, this forum account, they know about all that and didn't care, (they were fine because they said they trusted me to be responsible, which I have been) so I made a snapchat. Come to find out, a month or two after having it, my mom randomly asks my brother, "You don't have a snapchat, do you?" He replies, "No." My mom follows with just a flat out, "Good." I have had Snapchat for almost 5 or 6 months now. I don't even use snapchat for anything bad, even though it seems like my parents automatically think snapchat is just straight up, nonstop, sexting. I don't do that, don't feel comfortable doing it, and don't plan on doing that, because just so much stuff could go wrong, and I just don't want to do that lol.
Anyway, I am in the most complicated situation I could ever imagine. What do I do??
I am sorry for such drama, but I am really in a weird situation, and kind of need advice.
Also, I apologize for how hard this entire "Story" is to decipher. There are so many different factors and thoughts that entered my mind at the same time, that all of them messily came out into.... That ^ at once.
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