Serious Talk on Sex -Keep It Mature! description about a manga now added

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Serious Talk on Sex -Keep It Mature!

I think we need a thread about sex here. There's so many things teenagers don't learn through sex education in school or get told wrong things by other people. You can get missguided through your life or not know something that you really should. There is so many things to learn about that even me (at 23) still learns about things I didn't know.

This can be a place where young people can ask questions that they're not sure about and us older members here can guide you through things that you need to know. I don't know if this has already been done but I thought because so many people here trust each other and get along with other people it could be nice for people to ask people that they trust more.

Also maybe if we get enough posts on here I might put a Q&A in the description here but depends how this goes.

Rules:
-Nothing pornographic. Let's keep it educational. :)
-Serious answer and serious questions only
-Judgemental/negative comments here will be reported
-Try and use the proper names for things as much as you can
-There are no stupid questions
-Answer questions only if you know the answer or you're just posting your opinions
-Have fun. ^.^

Useful links:

General
http://sexetc.org/
https://www.youtube.com/user/lacigreen (Quite graphic and has swearing)
http://realtalksexadvice.com/ (may be too graphic for younger ones.)

contraception
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/topics-issues/condom/841-condoms
http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/contraception-guide/Pages/contraception.aspx (uk website but should be useful to everyone)

Female stuff
http://www.vaginapagina.com/

Manga
I'm not going to post the link here because I can get into a lot of trouble sending it to the young ones on here. >.>
For those of you who do better reading a manga then a book there's one that is very educational but is also very graphic with the pictures. It says it's for 18 or older but I think a lot of mature 16 year olds (especially virgins) would be sort of appropriate so if you pm me asking for it I will check to make sure you are 16 or over and if you are I will tell you the name of the manga.

Credit goes to fallenchaoskitten for reminding me about it

If anyone has any useful links just message me or post it on here and I'll add it to the list. :)

If anyone has a question they're too embarassed to ask on here feel free to pm me. If you'd like I could answer your question as best as I could then post the question on here annonymously so you get loads of helpful answers without everyone knowing who asked it.
 
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nteresting thread. I could ask some questions here
 
well.. when is a first time appropriate? .n.

I feel like this depends on one's situation. For example, I don't think that anywhere below the age of 15 is really appropriate in anybody's situation. Having said that, there are those who have genuinely been in a loving relationship at that age, and are mature enough to make their own informed decisions.

Then there are those above the age of consent who just run around doing it with anyone because they can.

I think once you feel really to make a really good informed decision and are comfortable and trusting of who you are with, then I think thats a good start :)

omg I sound so old
 
Certainly. In my country sex education is never provided in school cause is forbidden and against certain religion ( I live in a multiracial country) and so there's so many case on abandon newborn! Teens pregnant at age 13 and so. Also because of this I don't what teacher will teach if there is sex education class lol.

Most of us learn and educate about this from comic? friend's sharing? or porn? lol it is surprising that some of my friends feel shock when we discuss this among our gang.
 
well.. when is a first time appropriate? .n.

This is a tough one I'd say because there is no specific answer to that. When you feel like you're ready is an important one because of course if you don't feel ready you may regret it. There's no specific age for that because sometimes people in their 20s aren't ready just yet. Some people are never ready and will never have sex because it just doesn't interest them. Another important thing about your first time is staying safe. It's important to know how to use protection properly and making sure that for a girl's first time it doesn't hurt and that you take it slow. A lot of people think it's meant to hurt for girls their first time but it's not. What would also help with girls is masterbating to:
A: Make sure she's loosened up to make it easier for her first time
B: Know what she likes and doesn't like
I wouldn't say this is something girls HAVE to do but I'd say it makes it easier for both parts in this. If you both know what you like you can discuss with each other and guide each other so it makes it more enjoyable and will help the girl produce more natural lubricant, shall we say? So it will always be better to be with someone who will be understanding and take it slow with you.
Think I've covered everything about that question. xD
 
I've been hoping for thread like this, but I fear that immature people will ruin it for all the wrong reasons. Hopefully this thread can actually remain beneficial to others. :D

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well.. when is a first time appropriate? .n.

In my opinion, if you are unable to accept the potential consequences of sex, you are not ready yet.
 
I've been hoping for thread like this, but I fear that immature people will ruin it for all the wrong reasons. Hopefully this thread can actually remain beneficial to others. :D

Well I've added rules so if people don't stick to these rules there will be big trouble. lol
 
What do people mean by the "birds and the bees"?
 
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Another rule I would recommend is to keep the "LGBTQIA- Discussion and Support" stuff out of this. This is for the factual information of sex, not about the controversy of sexuality and gender. The only thing I think it would be appropriate would be if you are talking about precautions taken with different forms of sexual intercourse.
 
well.. when is a first time appropriate? .n.

I think this varies from person to person. In my opinion, if you're not mature enough to handle it and don't (or can't, depending on the age and other factors) use adequate forms of protection then it doesn't matter how old you are. I'm not going to say any definite ages because not everyone is the same in regards to maturity and whatnot.
 
Another rule I would recommend is to keep the "LGBTQIA- Discussion and Support" stuff out of this. This is for the factual information of sex, not about the controversy of sexuality and gender. The only thing I think it would be appropriate would be if you are talking about precautions taken with different forms of sexual intercourse.

See this is a tough one because yes we do have that forum but I don't think anyone really feels like it's approriate to discuss about sex there. It's seems to be more about general things for that topic. Also some things about gay sex can also benefit for straight sex too.
Hmm. . . :/

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What do people mean by the "birds and the bees"?

I think that's litterally just about the simples terms of sex and how babies are made.
 
Well, I think that there are not very many kids younger than 13 on here and that will probably not be too much of a problem.
 
I don't know, on one hand, this thread can easily be used to spread misinformation as well. Maybe posting some links to educational sites might be appropriate, so that younger people can learn through actual facts as well as having emotional support? Agreed with Flop with regards to making a decision like this though, do so through informed decision and be able to accept any consequences. Overall, just act responsibly and let your mind ultimately decide, not just your heart.
 
Well, I think that there are not very many kids younger than 13 on here and that will probably not be too much of a problem.

You're quite wrong there.

Question : Is using a condom during sexual intercourse wrong? Or is it a good thing?
 
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I honestly wouldn't be surprised if anyone were to spurt "ye so you put the donger in the puss" anytime soon.

I dunno, Sex Ed. threads never last long, even if it's trying to remain as Mature as possible.
 
I don't know, on one hand, this thread can easily be used to spread misinformation as well. Maybe posting some links to educational sites might be appropriate, so that younger people can learn through actual facts as well as having emotional support? Agreed with Flop with regards to making a decision like this though, do so through informed decision and be able to accept any consequences. Overall, just act responsibly and let your mind ultimately decide, not just your heart.

That's a good idea. :) If anyone finds any links to any sites that are useful that could email them to me and I can post the links in the description box. :)
 
I wonder if the mods shall close this thread?
I don't have any questions [lol why would i? i'm like 10] but I'm just thinking if the mods will
 
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