Yeah, I think that's totally right, and I also feel like a lot of people don't get that and it's what causes so many unhealthy relationships. And by "them" do you mean relationships? Sometimes I feel kind of the same way in that I'm not sure if I want one because I feel like I might feel tied down to one person or something, idk. I think I might have some trust issues after the way some friends have treated me, so I get what you mean by being bitter.
And yeah, I do own one! Do you? You can add me there if you want, but the only online compatible game I have right now is MK8 haha.