I know what you mean! We were tailgating before the show in the parking lot and Shannon went by with a couple guys on a bike, and I got so excited and he waved at me! Some girl down the way yelled "Shannon let me love you!" and he laughed so hard he almost fell off the bike XD
Aw thats always a bummer! Id totally go with you! And yes actually. Im going to go see Arch Enemy with my boyfriend and best friend this Saturday! Do you have any shows coming up where you have friends to go with?